Hayato Hikaru
"Heal First, Then Nurture: Creating a Loving and Resilient Family." E-Book *Only*
"Heal First, Then Nurture: Creating a Loving and Resilient Family." E-Book *Only*
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Description for the Book
In "Heal First, Then Nurture: Creating a Loving and Resilient Family," Hayato Hikaru guides parents on a transformative journey to heal their own emotional wounds and create a nurturing environment for their children. This book delves into the impact of generational patterns, emotional baggage, and the importance of self-care. Through practical advice, real-life examples, and actionable steps, readers will learn how to build emotional resilience, foster strong connections, and break negative cycles. This book is an essential resource for any parent looking to create a loving, supportive, and emotionally healthy family.
Reading Sample of Heal First, THEN NURTURE: "Creating a Loving and Resilient Family"
Excerpt – Introduction: Why You Need to Heal First
Hey there, parent-to-be or parent-in-the-thick-of-it. Let me ask you something: Have you ever snapped at your child and immediately felt a wave of guilt? Or maybe you’ve looked at them and thought, “I want them to have a better childhood than I did, but I’m not even sure where to start.”
If any of this feels familiar, you’re not alone. Let’s take a deep breath together because this journey begins with compassion — for yourself.
Here’s the truth: Being a parent is one of the most meaningful things you will ever do, but it is also one of the hardest. Not because children are inherently difficult (although, let’s be real, some days they really test us), but because parenting shines a spotlight on all the things we’ve buried or ignored in ourselves. Our insecurities, our past wounds, our unspoken fears — they all come rushing to the surface when we try to be everything for our kids.
But here’s the good news: you don’t have to be perfect. You don’t need to have it all figured out. Perfection is an illusion; what truly matters is your commitment to growth. The willingness to look inward and step onto the path of healing is not just for you—it’s the most precious gift you can give your children. By breaking cycles and setting a new standard, you’re creating a legacy of emotional health that will affect generations to come.
This book isn’t about pointing out what you’re doing wrong or piling on the pressure to “fix” yourself overnight. Instead, think of it as a friendly chat over coffee. Together, we’ll explore important truths, share a few laughs (because we’ll need them), and work through practical ways to heal and grow.
By the end, my hope is that you’ll feel lighter, more confident, and ready to show up for your kids in the way you always dreamed of.